One of the leading marriage researchers, John Gottman, has identified some of the proven signs of deterioration in the marriage relationship that are related to an increased likelihood of divorce. Some of these signs are:

• feeling distant
• increase in arguing or negativity
• lack of affection
• increase in anger, hostility, and sarcasm
• avoidance of each other

If your conversations and conflict resolutions quickly deteriorate into Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling, now is the time to act. If you are experiencing the pain of an emotional or sexual affair, we can help.

References: Gottman, J. M. (1993). A theory of marital dissolution and stability. Journal of Family Psychology, 7, 57-75; Gottman, J. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Crown Books.

References: Markman, H.J., Floyd, F.J., Stanley, S.M., & Storaasli, R.D. (1988) Prevention of marital distress: A longitudinal investigation. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 56, 210-217; Markman, H., Stanley, S. and Blumberg, S. Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love, 1994.

Many counselors can help you learn better communication skills, and those can be very helpful. At the Center for Biblical Counseling we believe that what is needed most in order to heal a relationship is deep heart change. Our skilled counselors can direct you on a path of personal growth and healing, and a deepened relationship with God.

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